My wife says that the older I get the more skeptical I am over all kinds of things. She does not enjoy that part of me. I would agree with her on that observation, however, God has given me sense enough to know that I must guard my heart from becoming "hardened" by skeptisicm or cynicism. Christmas time is no exception.
As I was studying, I came across the website for "Advent Conspiricy". This is a group of folks who are lifting up the idea that Christians should do Christmas differently than the way the world does Christmas. I read a lot of their background material and have studied the evolution of the Christmas celebration as compared to the biblical stories. The gap between what God was thinking about the birth of Jesus and what we often celebrate as Christmas is staggering. So what do I do? I don't want to go all "Jehovah's Witness" on Christmas.
I spent some time this morning asking God to keep me focused on Christ as our world celebrates Christmas. I want to stop looking at things with squinted eyes and my smile tucked into the side of my cheek. I want to belive Elvis, Bing, Randy Owens, Jimmy Stewart, the Choirs, etc. But I often scare people with a Jack Nicolson administration of "You want to know the truth? You can't handle the truth!" mentality. I do not enjoy the misgivings of Christmas. I love people, but my insides turn wrongside out when I see so much effort put in the wrong direction.
Scrooge discovered that Christmas is all about discovering the compassion that resides within one's own heart and is released by one's benevolence towards others. I disagree. Christmas is about following Jesus. He will lead us to the best expressions of love for the season. 
So here it is; my take on Christmas. What God did by sending His son to us is in no way diminished by the frailties of humans beings inability to stay focused on the things that matter to God. We all tend to stray from the center of God's way of thinking. Nevertheless, followers of Christ can fight to keep the message of "God with us" relevant in the melieu of cultural christmas phenomenons. First personally, then with expanding circles. Okay, I feel better. Fa, la, la, la, la...la, la, la la. Just chill out...God knows what He is doing.
(I still have a problem when I see the Wise men at the manger scene (Matt 2:1). What's wrong with me?) 